so, I haven’t talked to my guy friend in a couple months. Next thing ik he dms me randomly one night *name here* and I replied thinking “oh cool my friend, haven’t talked to him in a while” we talk on and off and the next day he out of the blue asks me if I’m dating anyone, or if I have since we had kinda quit talking. I figured it was small talk, said no and made a joke about it. He said that I’d find someone some day and I left it alone there. Fast forward to tn and I’m not sure I’m over thinking it or what, and tbh I wouldn’t mind some opinions. He randomly dmed me tn and says “hey *name here* can I be honest with you? I said yes ofc, what’s up and he replies with “I’m struggling lmaooo” now normally that wouldn’t mess with me or weird me out, but, the last time he said anything like that he was h**** I guess I’m just worried cause like, if that is what he’s saying shouldn’t he have just gone to his gf?? They’ve been dating for years, and me and her were friends a couple years ago (nothing bad happened, we just drifted) it just gives me a off feeling. I just kinda blew it off, said I went afk had things I had to do and apologized for ignoring the dm for now since I wasn’t sure what he was trying to imply and to be honest was super uncomfortable. Idk if I should go to his gf and tell her, or if I should wait. I’d hope he’d know better than to hit on me for a few reasons. 1. Me and his gf were literally friends before
2. …. he has a gf
3. I’m 🫳🏻🌈
I could also be easily over thinking it, but Idk