So I have my girlfriend of 3 years I was gonna propose to her soon but I’m having second thoughts about the relationship in general. Lately I’ve gotten to the end of my rope with her she’s constantly yelling complaining and bitching about little things. She has bipolar type 2 which makes every day unpredictable and hard to deal with. We work together and some days it’s a fight when we get up at 4 am a fight at 11 am at lunch or a fight at 11 pm when I’m trying to go to bed. She’s very sensitive which does not work well with my adhd because I’ll just sling out words which end up hurting her in some way. We have 2 dogs together an apartment and we are on a phone plan together I guess I’m really just asking what’s the first step to leaving because I’m worried for my dogs and stuff and my lease ends in 8 months